My mom is dating my girlfriends father

17-Jan-2018 02:15 by 8 Comments

My mom is dating my girlfriends father - pitfalls of dating online

I know that she really loves spending time with this other little girl, they’re good friends, and I think on the one hand it’s nice because they can do things together.

What can also be a strange situation is when your ex starts dating the mother of one your child’s friends.There are times however when she doesn’t want to be spending time with her friend.Sometimes she wants a little space and distance, and I’ve just always encouraged her to bring that up with him.That does mean more demands on his time but that is the reality of parenting and dating.Understanding that your child won’t always want to spend time with this friend is also important, so too is making sure there’s a safe place to air disagreements.And yes, if there’s a falling out things could get very uncomfortable.

That’s probably why some people choose to adopt a policy of not dating the parent of one of their kid’s friends or at least until they graduate high school.

He told me on a Friday that they were together, and then on Saturday, my daughter had plans to go to the movies with this friend, and I was under the understanding that the mother was picking them up and taking them to the movies.

Well, my ex pulls up, driving his girlfriend’s car, to collect my daughter, almost like a family and I was livid.

A few pointers from Michelle’s story would be to remember that you and your kids will need some time to adjust to the new situation. Your ex and his new partner may have been seeing each other for some time and have gotten used to being a couple.

If he’s only just introduced your kids to her, he shouldn’t just assume they’ll have an immediate comfort level even if they did already know her as a friend’s parent. If your ex gives you the opportunity, you can be supportive of him and suggest ways to ease the adjustment.

She was pretty upset, and she was struggling with that. I just encouraged her to talk to him about it and I said, “Listen, I know that you and your brother are Dad’s top priority and if he doesn’t know how you feel, he can’t change his behavior.”I didn’t want to get involved unless I absolutely had to, so I just encouraged her to talk to him, which I guess they did and he’s been able to help her feel better about it. I’ll ask him how he feels about it and he’ll just go, “It’s fine, it’s cool.” He’s a pretty reserved kid.