Dating a guy going through a divorce
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Stbxh and I don't have any issues, we're in 100% agreement with wanting a divorce and in complete agreement with a settlement.
She may try to hold it against him in court or she might use it to keep his children away from him.You will have to put up with her crying to him, and trying all sorts to get him (or you) to feel sorry for her. Mad insecurities You will need to be prepared to face constant reminders that she is a big part of his life and it will take time to let go of her.Perhaps he still has their wedding pictures, or you sleep in the same bed she where she slept with him.I agree with peggsu2, he needs to finish his divorce and work through the junk that comes with it. Most likely you would need to break off all contact in order to do this..let's be friends will just keep you on that roller coaster. But if he is recovering emotionally he may be ready to start again. It would be easy to say "wait until he OFFICIALLY gets divorced before you get involved", but, as we all know, relationships are never that clean, cut and dry.Good luck Sometimes dating too soon can cause a person to "skip" the grieving process. Like others said, there is a grieving stage, where a person has to get through the loss, the death of their marriage, so, while you think you're his end-all/be-all, when his pain cools down, he might lose interest in you and move on.How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community.
Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.I realise I am taking a risk on him by sticking with him, and I guess that if I want him then I have to, without even asking for much in return because anything that I might need in a relationship is put on hold while this divorce stuff goes on, and then I just wonder if I am just a fool. I also know that others in my situation can, like me, feel second best.I feel like Im in too deep already and I dont know which way to turn. I think it depends on different things, how he's handling the divorce emotionally, if he's ready to move on to a new relationship yet, how complicated the divorce is.Have been dating a man for about 6 months who was very newly separated when we met (not that I originally knew this, I thought he was already divorced).Im getting very anxious now that the divorce is getting rough, he is mentally all over the show that when its all over that things are going to change and I would have wasted my time. There are so many negative things out there about this and just for the record I was not around when they separated, I had nothing to do with it.You saying he's mentally all over the place, that would be a red flag to me.